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"Just plain Jane"
Date: 11/1/2015, Categories: First Time, Author: masterkapt, Rating: 100, Source: xHamster
sat down and calmly analyzed the whole situation. We both are quite smart and have dominant personalities. We both want to be in charge, and run things. That can’t work in a marriage. She is country; I am city. I am a techno-nerd; she is a physical work type. She is a church person, I am not religious; moreover, not even of her religion. Although we were soul mates in our way of thinking, like the same recreational activities (ahem), and interpersonal things, a marriage would not have worked out. However, I would have wanted an opportunity for us to try it… We did go fishing and discussed this. She felt the same way. What I got out of the discussion is she wanted someone she could control; however, she did not use those words. I said " Let me ask you this-- Do you think a marriage would have worked out between us?" She said " Maybe for a little while,but not in the long run. Again, we think the same thoughts... Then,she asked: “Could I borrow the “book” from you? He is not experienced the way that you are. If I jump on him he's going to question me about it, and I'd rather not go through that. If I bring out the book and we try stuff, it will not make him suspicious as to the education you gave me. He’s very much led a sheltered life and religious. I will teach him using the book.” Then there was a dirty laugh….. “Certainly” About 3 months later, they got married, with a real church ...