1. Transgender dating advice


    Date: 5/16/2017, Categories: Fetish, Shemales, Taboo, Author: holdatduck, Rating: 100, Source: xHamster

    could talk about those things for days! It’s another comfortable none gender-related topic that gets you more in tune with a person. 7. DO NOT ASK WHAT OUR OLD/REAL NAME USED TO BE. This shouldn’t need an explanation, but hell, somebody has to say it. It’s completely inappropriate. None of your business. And why do you want to know? Do you even remember my last name? Why do you feel entitled to know my LAST last name? Rude. 8. DO ASK WHAT OUR GOALS FOR THE FUTURE ARE. Many girls have big dreams and will stop at nothing to achieve them. Some will go on from being registered nurses to medical doctors, others from sales associates to store managers at Gucci. These are the things we want to discuss, it’s on keel with who we are in real life. 9. DO NOT COMPLIMENT US ON HOW “PASSABLE” OR “FEMININE” WE ARE. It is NOT a compliment. We are not trying to fool anybody or be anything that we feel we are not. This is who we are. Yes, it took a bit more work, but it’s an effort we made for ourselves, not some strange man’s approval. 10. DO COMPLIMENT OUR GENERAL APPEARANCE. “You look absolutely beautiful in that dress” is perfectly suffice as far as compliments go. “You have amazing hair” never hurt anybody either. 11. DO NOT ASK IF WE’VE EVER BEEN SEX WORKERS. Again, NONE of your business. How many girls did you sl**p with for free while you were in that fraternity in college? Does that make you better because this girl may have been paid for it? You ...
    don’t know her life or how hard it is being trans and getting a regular job, so just don’t even go there. Also, not all of us have gone down that route. I myself went straight to college out of high school and had financial support from my parents before I finally got a real job. Yet I still get that question every now and again. It’s fucked up, rude, offensive and complete stereotyping. 12. DO NOT FETISHIZE HER. If you love trans girls because you saw some wild shit in a “trannie porn” you loved, you’ve more than likely got the wrong girl. Studies have shown that no two people “get off” the same exact way, no matter what your sexual orientation or gender. So if you want the porno experience, I suggest you take the legal and health risks of hiring an actual hooker. They do anything you like, NOT us, you are mistaken. 13. AND LASTLY (UNTIL I CAN THINK OF ANY MORE POINTS), I NEED YOU GUYS TO REALLY DIG DEEP. You need to think to yourself, “Would I ask a cisgender woman this question?” If the answer is “No,” then Just. DON’T. Do. It. Don’t go there. Don’t be that asshole. We hate that guy. That guy gets absolutely nowhere and ends up buying the bar to make it worth my while for tolerating his constant faux pas. We are just as respectable, acceptable and lovable as any other girl on the planet. Treat us with the respect we deserve, and you will have yourself a wonderful person with an amazing story to share yourself with. Good luck out there, singles!
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